other partner. Even though its a join in sort of thing, she still would like to be wooed. Go out to the usual gathering places and approach women the two of you are attracted to together. Buy her a drink. If she's even remotely into having something with both of you, she'll pick up really quick that's what you are seeking and stick around. If not she mosey on her way. You *are* all strangers after all so there's nothing terrible that can come of trying, but a great nothing at all happen if you don't get out there. People you meet out and about can more easily feel themselves committed to a potential scene with you than someone you meet online. There's really no feeling of being pledged to join a couple when you've never met them and when the first meeting lead to intimacy immediately afterwards. Interwebs do not equal transparency and surveying in the field can minimize a lot of anxiety for all involved. Plus it serves as a date night for you and the missus ain't nuthin wrong with that. Attend local munches and bdsm groups in your area. Those folks might be able to link you up with someone wanting to be a third for an evening and you skip a couple of the first steps in terms of finding folks open to the activity. The usual suggestion fetlife. Although an about me section filled with body and education stats is off-putting to me; I did accidentally run into a few profiles a few days ago of folks looking for a third and looking to be a third. They immediately got out of the way:"height/weight proportionate and clutured"," social wine 'm educated, professional, own my own house, car, etc." like if that's your thing. Some folks make it easy to find what you want. The pools have shallow and deep ends, fetlife has a bit of everything plus pictures :D.

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And if she complains who cares? She's your EX you don't have to cater to her whims any more. You're free! I'd say that being an "ex" is friction enough. Being an ex-fiance' is a bit more definite than being an ex-boyfriend. I think you need to accept that this relationship has come to a end, and use your counseling to move on instead of trying to figure out how to fix it.

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but he really is a great guy. I'm just here to work on a problem so that is all I'm talking about, the negative in our relationship. I know when all one hears is negative it seems that he is a jerk. If he were I don't think I would be as willing to do the work and wanting to connect with him so much. Out off the two of us, I am the high maintenance one. I think we are a bit mismatched when it comes to personality. In some ways that is great because he keeps me grounded while I help him move forward. He is more relaxed and I am a worrier. I am a very abstract thinker and he is a concrete thinker. He is a 1st Sergeant the Army (we are a military family) and has a bureaucratic thinking pattern. I swear, when you think of a typical 1st sgt, that is his entire personality! I am a fairly typical woman who wants to be told I am a great mom, wife, beautiful, sexy, talk about our feelings etc. That is where I feel I have compromised and cannot anymore. The little bit of connection that I still had was us being intimate. I am not cool with having that connection (and sex in general) only once a week. Not cool dude, not cool ; )