Binatural's thread below got me to thinking about what the best way would be for some guys to tell their wives or girlfriends they're sexually interested in men. This would be especially relevant for guys who have been married for ten or twenty years and have wives who have no clue about their husband's interest in other men. I know I luckily outed myself gradually to my wife. First, it was just occasional comments made while having sex and being a bit drunk. I'd suggest a threesome with another guy and maybe sucking his. I think the wife just tossed those aside as drunken ramblings at first, but after a while I think she knew. I made more and more comments regarding sex with men over the years, eventually referring to myself as a queer or homo to her. I don't know that I ever said "-, I think you should know I'm homosexual". Anyway, that's what worked for me. Wasn't really perfect as I don't think she knows just how much I'm interested in other guys, but I can cross dress and play with dongs and don't have to hide it. I'm wondering, though, how someone who has been married and closeted for 20 years might be able to bring up the subject in a way that doesn't scare or shock the wife too much. Any ideas? I was thinking it would be best to set up a situation that would allow you to bring up the issue naturally. About the only thing I could think of is watching porn together but, if you don't normally watch porn, that might be too much of a shock in itself. I realize some guys just can't tell their wives. I've chatted with a number of guys who where emphatic that their wives would divorce them if they told them they were interested in men. But what about the others?

I used to know this korean girl who'd suck my testicles so hard that i was concerned about permanent damage! I once asked her to ease off a bit and she was so hurt she had tears in her eyes (just like me). She was a bitch, but after 20 years, i still her.

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My wife and I have been together for about six years now, and have always had a rather sex life. Early on, we explored with some basic kinky (whips, tying up, etc.) and some semi-public sex, never with any true risk of anyone seeing us but it was still a turn on. Other than those aspects, we've been fairly vanilla but. We haven't really explored any kink aspects in a while, partly from the day to day rigors of life and partly because we just had our first about six months ago. A few weeks ago, we ignited our discussions a little bit and both of us decided that we'd like to explore things that we've discussed in the past. Among the items that we discussed are light sexual submission (I identify myself as submissive, while she is more a switch). She has a bit of experience in this area from a previous relationship, but we are both rather new to the process. In terms of being dominated, some of the things that I expressed an interest to her are basic humiliation (especially verbal), orgasm control, some pain, and general whipping, tying up, handcuffs, etc. She has expressed some concern in the best way to get started, and I don't have enough background either. She also stated that the humiliation would be very hard on her to do, so it's probably something we won't explore unless she later feels more comfortable. Basiy, what are some tips for getting started as a Domme (I'll admit, we're mostly looking at it from a kinky/bedroom perspective, rather than a full lifestyle). Because we want something less intense than your standard Domme/sub relationship, it's been difficult to find much online. Another area that we discussed was an interest in seeing my wife with another woman. At least in the initial thoughts, I'd simply like to watch her make out with someone and where it goes from there. At this time, I don't want to participate, but the thought of watching turns me on quite a bit. She's expressed interest as well, as she has been with women quite a bit in the past, and enjoys the idea of sharing that with me. Are there any tips on the best way to find partners like this (we both agree we're looking more for one time/occasional meetings, rather than a committed female partner). The internet is just so full of false leads! Thanks for reading my novel, and any discussion would be great.

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