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I don't know what to do...

Postby Cathal » Sat Jan 08, 2011 4:49 am

I don't know what to do...
My SO (we're not legally married but basiy are in every other way) and I got into a fight last night. I am so mad at him..... we have a 16 month old child.... he's as WONDERFUL father, he wakes up with the baby every morning... I work and he is currently laid off. If I want to go out with girlfriends, he lets me.... he never complains about it. He makes dinner every night and tries to clean as much as he can. He is a drama free person. BUT he gaves me an STD when we first started dating... I forgave him. He cheated on my after I had the baby... I forgave him.... I do all the laundry, I do MOST of the cleaning, even after working 30 hours a week. He says he wants more help with the baby when I get home, but I feel like I only have so much time. He plays Call of Duty for hours on end through out the day/night. I am still mad at him fro the STD, and I am still PISSED about him cheating on me.... (he appolgized and said it was the worst mistake he's made and I believed him) My head says leave but my heart says stay.... I do love him but I really don't like him sometimes. He is a wonderful father and he ADORES our son... but I feel neglected. Thoughts? Thank you.
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Re: I don't know what to do...

Postby ljiljana » Sun Feb 13, 2011 6:18 am

babysitter
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Re: I don't know what to do...

Postby Tak » Tue Mar 08, 2011 12:28 pm

hours a week
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Re: I don't know what to do...

Postby Gussie » Mon Mar 14, 2011 12:08 am

Leave, stupid
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Re: I don't know what to do...

Postby exley » Mon Mar 14, 2011 1:34 am

LEAVE HIM
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Re: I don't know what to do...

Postby Pooh » Sat Apr 09, 2011 2:47 am

Just out of curiousity...
You're basiy saying that you want to leave him b/c he's playing Call of Duty all day/night
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Re: I don't know what to do...

Postby Angele » Mon Apr 18, 2011 10:06 pm

how long has he been job free
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Re: I don't know what to do...

Postby Rosanne » Sun Apr 24, 2011 9:42 am

if you're gonna forgive him
you are not allowed to bring up the STDs or the cheating every time you two bicker. THATS NOT FAIR. And if you can't truly get over it, break up. Stay together, don't complain about working a whole 30 hours a week, be grateful to have a man who cares for your kid, and maybe he can tell you what he appreciates about you, and you can declare a truce. <BR
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Re: I don't know what to do...

Postby Moselle » Tue Apr 26, 2011 9:41 am

snort* .. no woman plays by that rule
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Re: I don't know what to do...

Postby Fiona » Tue May 24, 2011 1:06 pm

this is where I was getting at
thank you HC
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