Spontaneity - Do you have it in you ltr?
I've been with my guy for over 2 years and he's always paid attention, done very nice & loving things for me. The problem is that in the last couple months; these things have dropped off - ok STOPPED. My problem is that I went through this with my x and now I'm going through it again. I am a generally affectionate, loving, caring person that shows how much I love the other person by doing nice things. Buying them their favorite candy, making fav dinners, giving cards for no reason, leaving love notes - things of that nature. I'm wondering how many of you who have been together for many, many year and have had this problem. Did it get solved or did you just get used to it? I know the entire theme of guys do what they can to 'get you' and then once they’ve got you, they slack off.