An Accidental Naked Singularity did not happen
Cause and effect isn't a fact You don't have to pay child support or alimony even if ordered by the court. There are plenty of countries where you will not be extradited back here for debt. The women there usually make better wives anyway. You also have the option of going to prison where they feed and give you shelter. You don't have to see your children even if that frustrates your ex-spouse. This is your decision. This is a free forum and the advice here is worth just that much. Everyone here has their own agenda and their advice is colored with it. Remember, what you do in the future just may affect what you did yesterday.