Is the grass greener on the other side

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Re: Is the grass greener on the other side

Postby glotzbach » Sun Oct 10, 2010 12:35 am

Being divorced is a transition
not a destination in most cases
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Re: Is the grass greener on the other side

Postby Mila » Sun Oct 10, 2010 1:18 am

If you do it twice, it becomes a destination
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Re: Is the grass greener on the other side

Postby Jay » Sun Oct 10, 2010 1:33 am

I know most people arent's
happy being alone - but I believe they need to be. As I've said before, you have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with anyone else. ANd, the only way to do that is to be by yourself. I enjoyed my time alone. I spent time with friends, family, and my kids - time completely by myself; exercised, experimented with cooking, gardening, read... IT was awesome
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Re: Is the grass greener on the other side

Postby Hayden » Sun Oct 10, 2010 1:58 am

I think you're right overall
MOST people don't want to be alone in my experience too. I think they have a hard time embracing the real fun and positive aspects of being single. I mean when making up a grocery list who you checkin' with? I don't have to worry that I didn't read the care label on some blouse that looks just like a tee shirt either or the fact that I really DO like fishing a lot and by jeebus I think I'll hook the boat up tonight and head up to the lake. Neither life needs to be bad but for some reason that's not how most of us are wired
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Re: Is the grass greener on the other side

Postby lakins » Sun Oct 10, 2010 3:08 am

When I got the final divorce papers
I felt immense relief, happiness, and peace. I went to DMV and SS and changed my name that very day. Then I celebrated for a week. <BR
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Re: Is the grass greener on the other side

Postby Sella » Sun Oct 10, 2010 3:14 am

did you shit in your pants too
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Re: Is the grass greener on the other side

Postby puccinelli » Sun Oct 10, 2010 3:22 am

Ummm...no
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Re: Is the grass greener on the other side

Postby Romano » Sun Oct 10, 2010 7:18 am

I'm happy
Happy I have time with my kids and happy I'm not married to my manic ex
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Re: Is the grass greener on the other side

Postby lacks » Sun Oct 10, 2010 7:37 am

At this point...
I think I'm better off without. There are two sides to a companionship. And frankly, I don't want to deal with the negative side of it, so I will do without the positive side
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Re: Is the grass greener on the other side

Postby darryl » Sun Oct 10, 2010 7:52 am

I agree, it comes with too much drama
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