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24 y/o bi female, here. Looking for someone to talk about confusing/frustrating situations with re: bisexuality. Or, anything re: bisexuality at all.. then we can get to the good stuff, like life, in general. This is my first discussion forum posting so please don't hate. Click on the link above for an ad about myself that I posted, just a little bit ago. I posted under 'strictly platonic' but am considering doing another one under w4w.. Please, reply by e-mail re: offering online friendship/support *ONLY* if you can be real about everything. Thanks a million, in advance.

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To a guy, a woman who is focused on age or is concerned about her age screams "desperate" The younger ones you mentioned are potential biological clock watchers who are seeking a sperm donor. The over 50s get desperate to avoid "dying alone" or turning into the neighborhood cat. A casual embracing of your age goes a way to showing there is no hidden agenda. (HINT: Ask HIM out To something casual, maybe a bit tomboyish, COMPLETELY independent of money or good looks. Best if it includes something you actually enjoy doing and sharing)

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So, on Friday, I went to Pink (which used to be ed "Liquid") the same place I had written about here earlier that day It must've been one of those evenings in which I was "on". The music seemed particularly good. Fellow dancers on the dancefloor were quick to shoot smiles my way. A girl introduced herself to me, I think, in an effort to hook me up with her brother (how sweet, but I wasn't into him). As the music made me forget myself and my joints became ever more flexible, I had a really good boogie-down with a transsexual who seemed to be enjoying herself as much as I was. Then I danced-into this guy. He was a bit older than me and was handsome, but what allured me was how well the movement of his hips matched mine to the beat of the music. We danced and kissed for a while I think we'd both made-up our minds within 5 minutes of that. "Wanna go to my place?" he asked. "Absolutely!" "I have to tell my girlfriend what we're up to" So, he led me across the club to where an attractive short blonde woman was leaning against a wall. He leaned over and said something in her ear. She backed away and said to him so I could hear; "Oh, so he's a good kisser eh?" She looked at me; "Would you give me a kiss?" and so, I did. She was as good a kisser as her boyfriend. She broke-off, sucking on her lower lip, stared at me a moment, and said to her boyfriend; "Yeah, he'll be OK for you to go off with. Have fun, boys!" "Sorry, but I HAD to check-in with her" "No, that's just fine. I wouldn't be going home with you without her permission." I won't bore you all with the details of the multiple positions and orgasms we had that night, because while wonderful, it wasn't the point I wanted to make. As someone in an open relationship, as someone who puts effort into having morals and rules injected into my sluttery, as someone who appreciates varying sexualities, modes of being, and folks who have completely owned and come to terms with their sexuality it was really special, almost life-affirming, to have met his girlfriend, to have kissed her, to have received her blessing.

Those who know me, know I destest labels because I find them limiting and use of same often causes more misunderstanding than clarification. How a person lives and how they respect themselves and others is much more important to me. In my mind, people (including their sexualitiy) are fluid beings no matter how they act on their carnal desires at a given time. Some folks take longer to know who they are and what they want, tasting a bit of this or that along the way. Some folks struggle to meet expectations of others before becoming comfortable and confident within themselves. And then there are some who follow their internal being and recognize their sexuality even before they really know what it even is or how they eventually prefer to express it. What bothers me the most about the term "bi-sexual" is that folks assume it indicates active promiscuity or a poly-amorous nature. I've found that to rarely be the case though and perhaps the term might better be applied to describe one's sexual history as opposed to their true identity. Good food for thought, misn0mer, and thanks for the discussion.