No I happened to read the first thread. I made a connection to said study. My top post had nothing to do with gratification but rather was a bit of a tongue in cheek personal musing coupled with a possible sociological answering to the question: why are people so nasty on the Internet? Without question, I did not adhere to protocol regarding investigating and citing the information which is poor form; however, I was busy with other things; indicated that I hadn't followed protocol; promised that I would link it once I had done my due diligence. It takes only moments to type a personal observation regarding unkind behavior .quite a bit longer to research the validity of a study. Now if you'll forgive me .I have a meeting to attend. I'll take copious and highly detailed notes .cross my heart.

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When you feel confused just stop thinking too much about that one subject that is making you feel bad, put it aside for a bit, everyone has a different time to be able to handle issues, learn how yours is, when you're relaxed..think about it again, you'll find it easier to deal with after a bit of time has passed. If you’re irritated with something, ask yourself why, what is it you don't like about what's happening, is it something you need to do and have no other options?, can you bare doing it? or is it something you can do without, you'll find sometimes we cause our own stress by over thinking, just make sure it's not important enough before you dismiss that subject. Make time every day for relaxation, 30 and hour whatever you need also it’s good to try to have one day of the week where you either don’t do any work or do less work that day than any other day of the week, just make sure this time is for you, don't allow interruptions unless you can deal with them, listen to your intuition, your body only wants to protect itself, pay attention, with practice and commitment you succeed at everything you do. Good Luck and i you feel better.

I'm in it, for sure. It's part of why I quit dating. It was just exhausting. I couldn't find anyone who hit all of the "must-haves" who seemed to like me back. I'd say that I usually know by the end of the 2nd or 3rd date if the chemistry is there. I know this isn't true for everyone, but I have never grown into a sexual attraction for someone if it wasn't there initially (despite concerted attempts with various wonderful men who I knew could make me very happy if only we could connect on that level). I have certainly grown to be more attached to someone while lacking that passion, but it seems that only leads to heartbreak when I am forced to admit to myself, and them, that I can't feel for them what they have grown to I already do. There really isn't anything for it but to keep an open mind, keep at it, and keep your options open. Stay friends, how you feel, be as honest as you can be. It might be your feelings grow and change over time, or it might be that you have to end things later when it might be a little bit harder. Just like any relationship, it's a bit of a risk. avoir le courage!

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- do I feel for you and know your pain. folks are going to neg you and lambast you for your attitude though. I do know where you are coming from. I too have suffered through a lack of libido and a satisfying sex life with my spouse of several years duration. I don’t really think that most of the females on this board really know how bad a lack of frequent intimacy really is for most of us guys, fortunately for me that situations starting to improve now. However for years it was so bad I contemplated divorce and if it weren’t for the we would have split. I was also fortunate in that one of my very best friends and my first and longest tenured lover was also a groomsman at our wedding. She knew about he and I and our relationship and she likes him a lot which helps too. So while M2M sex squicks her and she doesn’t want to hear any of the details of our liaisons she tolerates our occasional “hunting and fishing” weekends together where he and I have wild and passionate sex for the whole weekend. Now if it were up to me I’d rather her to be one of the females who likes and is turned on by M2M sex since I’d to share all the details and incorporate them into our fantasies and life. As a matter of fact I’d to share him with her in a mmf relationship. Alas that’s not in the cards so I’m stuck with what I’ve got. I’ve also been fortunate over the years in finding other married guys similar to us with similar issues. Between us, we’ve had the occasional liaisons over the years, enough to satisfy the M2M itch and provide some mutual relief and satisfaction. Once again my wife knows of and tolerates this activity. All she requests is that I be discrete, careful, and circumspect. I can live within those limits. Like I said I’d prefer to share this side of myself more intimately with her but that never happen. I’d suggest you discuss this a bit more with your wife. Hopefully she’ll come to understand that part of your nature and not be threatened by it. Hopefully she’ll at least allow you to explore that part of your nature and if you are really fortunate maybe she’ll want to share that part of your life and be actively involved as well.